It's not about love. It was never about love. It was a love at first sight situation; which has only grown stronger. But there comes a time when enough is enough. You've reached a fork into your journey and you can't stay along for the ride. He's always been a life-in-the-fast-lane kinda geeza - I always knew that. His boy racer ways were enticing at first but with kids it's now all a bit annoying. As painful as it is, I decided last Wednesday, after being left at the roadside with two kids, it's time to move on.